He
contrasts this love with a much lesser love. It’s amazing to see that people
were distracted from God in Augustine’s time just as they are now. He died in
the year 430. That’s over 1500 years ago. You’ll be amazed at just how similar
people 1500 years ago were to us now. Augustine says the love of the wedding
garment is not the love for play actors. Just like now many are obsessed with
what actors in Hollywood are up to. That’s why People magazine exists. He says
the love of the wedding garment is not love for their favorite charioteers and
huntsmen. That’s just like now. Sometimes we overemphasize sports. Sports are
good things. Our ability to play them is God’s gift. So sports can be played in
a way that gives Him the glory but that’s not always the case. When I was in
Honduras one summer, I could tell the priest kept preaching about soccer. I
couldn’t understand all the Spanish but I kept hearing that word futbol. He
said some of the men there will neglect their families and get all wrapped up
in watching soccer.
Very
often, we hear our Lord refer to Heaven as the eternal wedding feast. It’s
actually His most favorite analogy. God wants to be married to us, in a sense. He
wants to be closer to us than a husband is to his wife. At a wedding feast, we
have a bride and groom. A marriage of bride and groom has taken place. In
Heaven, a marriage is taking place: The marriage of Christ the groom with His
bride the Church, That’s us!
God
calls all of us to the wedding feast. In fact, God is calling and reaching out
to us nonstop. That’s the topic of the Lord’s parable in today’s Gospel. We
respond by keeping on our wedding garment. In the parable, the guest without
the wedding garment is probably a Christian who loses his zeal and becomes
complacent. This is the character who concerns us.
Upon
arrival at a wedding feast, each person is issued a wedding garment. If a guest
would have the nerve to take off the garment during the wedding feast, this
would be a huge insult to the bride and groom. It would show that the guest is
not interested in their marriage and is just along for the ride, maybe to get
the free prime rib. Even though the guy insults the king by taking off the
wedding garment, notice how the king continues to reach out to him. He even
calls him “friend.” But in his stubbornness, he refuses to respond. The New
American Bible says that the wedding garment is the repentance, change of heart
and mind, that is the condition for entrance into the kingdom. And it must be
continued by a life of good deeds.
We
know that God is the giver of all good gifts. This includes the things we
enjoy. One of these gifts is our freedom. This freedom or free will that God
gives us is awesome. But in that freedom, we are also free to reject God. And
it’s sad that so many of us reject Him.
Just
by noticing the beauty of creation, we should enjoy the certain hope that the
next life is going to be even more awesome than this one. But in our freedom
some of us choose the things of this world and reject the hope of the next. We
become satisfied with the status quo.
Even
though we have the tendency to reject God because of our fallen nature, He will
always continue to provide for us the most bountiful feast of his Son. We just
have to choose it. We just have to keep on our wedding garment. We have to show
God that we are still interested in a relationship with Him.
Sometimes
we become complacent like the guy without the wedding garment. We may be
tempted to think that as long as we show up at Sunday Mass we’re OK. But the
Lord calls us to go deeper in our relationship with Him. He calls us to trust Him
completely.
At
a recent archdiocesan conference, I heard a talk by Author Sherry Weddell. She
recently wrote a book called Forming
Intentional Disciples. A disciple is a learner, a pupil, a follower of a certain
teacher. The one we follow of course is Jesus. An intentional disciple makes a
conscious commitment to follow Jesus in the midst of His Church as an obedient
disciple and to reorder one’s life accordingly. That’s what it means to keep on
the wedding garment. Sherry walked us through the levels of commitment to reach
this ideal. The vast majority of people get scared and disengaged on the way. We
get scared, distracted by the world and take off the wedding garment.
The
wedding garment keeps us genuine. It keeps us from putting our faith in the
Sunday Mass compartment. The love of God permeates every aspect of our lives. As
Christians we put our faith into everything we do, not just Sunday Mass. We put
our faith into our jobs, our families, how we deal with others in society.
The
wedding garment shows that we are 100% aligned with God. When we respond, He
gives us the grace we need to keep the wedding garment on. It’s good to enjoy
the abundance of God’s creation. Like the fine foods and choice wines that
Isaiah mentions in the first reading. We should be a happy and joyful people. We
have been redeemed and we should act like it. And St. Paul tells us in his
letter to the Philippians that we just heard: Abundance or hunger does not
matter. We are still called to remain faithful. I can do all things in him who
strengthens me. We should rejoice in knowing that we can do all things in God
who has strengthened us.
I
don’t know what the wedding garment looks like, but people will notice when we
have it on because of our joyful witness. And God brings us to the feast to
enjoy rich foods and choice wines for all eternity.