Did you know the Sign of Peace is actually optional? The missal says: “If appropriate, the Deacon or the
Priest, adds: Let us offer each other the sign of peace.” So don’t be alarmed
if you go to Mass somewhere else and the priest leaves it out. Mass is still
valid and perfectly licit, or legal, without it. When I was in high school
work, there were many times we had to invite the students to offer the sign of
peace before Mass even started. In certain situations, the liturgy could easily
get off the rails. It could lead to the tendency to completely forget about
Jesus and the mysteries being celebrated. We are here to worship Him.
So what is the meaning of the Sign of Peace? The missal reminds us this gesture “expresses peace, communion, and charity.” We could spend years unpacking each of those. It is
good for us Christians, to join ourselves to the Lord Jesus in this act
of worship of the Father, who is the origin of peace, communion and charity. Jesus
is our peace, we don’t manufacture it ourselves. Jesus is the source of our
communion, we could not manufacture it ourselves no matter how much we tried. Since
we are in communion with him, we are in communion with each other by
association. He is the one that makes our communion real. Our communion with Him is
the only reason we can signify it with the sign of peace in the first place.
The
liturgical books further remind us that the sign of peace is not focused on the
reconciliation of brothers and sisters. All of that was already signified earlier in Mass. In the Penitential Act, we said: “I
confess to Almighty God and to you my brothers and sisters that I have greatly
sinned.”
The
important thing is that we keep in mind the Sign of Peace is a symbolic action.
By making the sign of peace with the people next to us, we are saying we are at
peace with everyone, not only everyone present in the building, but also with
everyone in the Universal Church, and hopefully everyone in the world. Because
of this symbolism, it is not necessary or proper to try to offer the sign of
peace to as many people as possible.
The General
Instruction of the Roman Missal reminds us: “It is, however, appropriate that
each person offer the sign of peace only to those who are nearest and in a
sober manner.” The people nearest us are the people on either side of us. If
it’s not in a sober manner, we could be distracted from the sacred mysteries we
are celebrating.
The appropriate form of the sign of peace in this country is a hand shake. Some people who are closer may embrace or even kiss each other if it is appropriate.
Looking at
the big picture, we should keep in mind at that time of Mass that Jesus is exposed, and present, on the altar: Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity. Some of the
faithful in some parts of the Church would be scandalized that the faithful
would turn their backs to the Lord who is present in the Blessed Sacrament. This Advent season is a special time to long to be in the Lord's presence.
Since our
beginnings 2,000 years ago, Catholics have always been very good at fostering
community. We have always had better community building than any other
faith-based group in the world. The important thing is that we remember we are
at Mass to worship God.
All this
being said, it is never appropriate to walk around, away from one’s place in
the pews. I especially ask parents to be vigilant in keeping your children of
all ages in your care. Since reconciliation between brothers was already
signified at the Penitential Act at the beginning of Mass, it would not make
sense to go seek out our enemies at this time, let alone our friends or the
people we like the best.
Another
reason for a sober sign of peace, is because of what is going to happen next. We
should long to witness the liturgical action of the priest breaking the sacred
host. It reminds us that Jesus’ body was broken for us in His death on the
Cross. The one who is fully God and fully human went to a horrible gruesome
death so we could have eternal life. That is good news, and we should desire to
witness it.
This also
signifies that the many faithful are made one body by receiving communion from
the one bread of life which is Christ. This leads us to our ultimate sign of unity: Holy Communion.
The faithful are invited to receive Holy Communion. The word “communion” means
“one with.” We are made one with Jesus because He makes us one with him. When
we receive the Body and Blood of the Lord Jesus, we are one with Him if we
receive in the state of grace. And if all
of us are one with Him, we are one with each other. It is a unity that Jesus
makes real, not one that we can fabricate, manufacture, or invent on our own.
In
receiving Holy Communion, our body language is speaking volumes. We are saying
our union with the Church is real. We are saying we believe everything the
Church teaches. We are saying the pope is our spiritual father. We are saying
we are in the state of grace and have prepared ourselves to receive. We are
saying we are not conscious of any grave sin since our last confession. If
these things are not true, we are telling a lie with our bodies and committing
a sacrilege, treating something holy in an unholy way. If these things are not
true, we should never receive communion just because everybody else does.
How do we
receive? The universal, worldwide practice is to receive Holy Communion on the
tongue while standing. The United States and some other countries have received
special permission to receive Holy Communion in the hand, but this is not the
universal practice. Other countries use the posture of kneeling for Holy
Communion. So, we should be careful when traveling to other countries. We don’t
want to scandalize or offend the faithful.
Holy
Mother Church also asks us to make a gesture of adoration before receiving. In 2002, the bishops of this country asked us to make a bow of the head that
symbolizes our adoration of the Lord who we are receiving. I think we do a
really good job with that. Even though this is the preferred gesture in our
country, some people genuflect or receive while kneeling. These are also
acceptable.
The things
I have shared with you over these past couple months are in no way exhaustive
of the fullness of the mysteries being celebrated. The Lord invites all of us
into the mysteries more fully in order to worship Him and encounter Him more
fully. We can never finish learning this no matter how long we live.